Keep the peace, protect the moment
Licensed therapist providing on-site emotional support at weddings
The luxury of emotional ease on your wedding day.
Wedding Day Emotional Concierge
Your wedding is meant to be one of the most beautiful days of your life—but that doesn’t mean it’s without stress, emotional tension, or family dynamics that can quietly (or not-so-quietly) disrupt the day.
We’ve all seen the videos on social media or been a witness to wedding drama caused by relational conflicts. Life transitions coupled with the stress of planning a big celebration can lead to unwanted explosions.
What is Wedding Day Emotional Support?
Think of me as your emotional concierge. I’m behind the scenes, supporting you, your family, and even your wedding party to keep emotions grounded, boundaries respected, and conflicts de-escalated, so you can stay focused on joy, not drama.
Whether you’re anticipating tension with divorced parents, overwhelmed by anxiety, or simply want to avoid last-minute meltdowns, I’m here to help everyone show up as their best selves.
I will help…
Calm pre-ceremony nerves
Mediate potential family or guest conflict
Support anxious or grieving loved ones
Offer grounding tools for the couple or wedding party
Be a neutral third party for high emotion moments
My service is especially helpful for:
Blended families
LGBTQIA+ couples navigating complex family systems
Second marriages
Emotionally sensitive guests
Anyone who wants a smoother, more emotionally supported experience
Your Options
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Day-of Support
$1,000–$1,500
Includes:
• Up to 6 hours on-site support (ceremony + reception window)
• Emotional check-ins with couple + key family members
• Discreet intervention for family tension
• One 30-minute planning call before the wedding
•Grounding tools, mindfulness support, or brief meditations for the wedding party
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Premium Option
$2,500–$3,500+
Includes:
• Everything in the Day-Of Support
PLUS:
• 2–3 pre-wedding consultation appointments with couple or family members
• Wedding party or family prep session (to discuss boundaries, triggers, etc.)
• Post-wedding decompression session (helpful for second marriages or high-conflict families)
• Printable or digital emotional prep guide
•Email/text access week-of wedding
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Add-ons
Additional Hours: $200–$300/hour beyond base
• Emergency pre-wedding family mediation: $500–$800
• Virtual support only (week-of and day-of via phone/text): $500
•Post-wedding conflict resolution session: $350–$500
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Virtual/Destination Options
Starting at $500
🗓️ Booking Now for 2025 & 2026 Weddings
Why me?
I specialize in relational dynamics and burnout. Both of which are at the forefront of planning and executing a wedding ceremony. I’m also a Certified Yoga Instructor, and I love to incorporate physically grounding techniques into my practice and services.
I’ve spent years helping individuals, couples, and families navigate complex relationships with compassion and clarity. My role is not only to support you, but also to protect the joy of your day, ensuring you and your loved ones can be fully present for every moment.
Wedding Planners & Venues
Partner with me to offer a high-end, luxury emotional support service that elevates your client experience.
When families feel supported, vendors feel supported too.
Let me help make your job easier and calmer.
Want fewer disruptions and smoother timelines?
✔ Available as an exclusive vendor or add-on service
✔ Referral discounts available
✔ Virtual and in-person packages for PA & NJ weddings
FAQs
Frequently asked questions
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No, this is more in alignment with coaching. Although I am a licensed therapist, this service does not legally constitute as therapy and although our relationship is confidential, it is not legally privileged. (See Disclaimer for more info.)
I do bring my expertise as a licensed therapist to provide on-site emotional support during the wedding day. This can include calming pre-ceremony nerves, helping manage family dynamics, supporting the wedding party, and discreetly stepping in if conflicts arise. My role is to keep emotions balanced so the focus stays on joy and celebration.
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Wedding planners and coordinators focus on logistics such as timelines, vendors, and details. My role is solely emotional support. I complement your planning team by addressing stress, anxiety, or family tensions so planners and venues can focus on running the event smoothly.
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Yes. Depending on the package, I offer pre-wedding consultations with the couple or family members. These help set boundaries, address concerns, and prepare emotionally for the big day.
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Not unless you want them to. I work discreetly and blend in seamlessly with the event. Some couples introduce me as their “emotional concierge,” while others simply know I’m there as support behind the scenes.
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I’m trained to discreetly and professionally intervene, offering calm mediation and support. My goal is to prevent disruptions and de-escalate situations quickly, without drawing unnecessary attention.
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I offer both. I can be physically present on your wedding day in New Jersey or Eastern Pennsylvania, and I also offer virtual support via phone or video for destination weddings or couples outside my travel range.
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I recommend booking as soon as possible—ideally 6–12 months in advance—since wedding dates fill quickly. Last-minute requests are possible if my schedule allows.
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I collaborate with planners and venue staff as a behind-the-scenes partner. My presence reduces stress for your team, ensures fewer emotional disruptions, and enhances the client experience.
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No, I specialize in relational dynamics of all kinds; including friendships. That means that if tensions are running high amongst the wedding party, I’ll be there to navigate.
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Absolutely! Along with grounding exercises, a calm presence, and a sense of humor when it’s needed most.
Let’s Connect
Ready to bring calm and joy to your big day? Tell me a little about your wedding below, and we’ll design the perfect support package for you
Disclaimer
Coaching/Support Disclaimer
The services surrounding wedding wellness are provided by Aliya Kenyatta/Ivy Roots Counseling & Consulting, LLC are distinct from therapy or counseling. Coaching is a professional relationship designed to support personal and professional growth, goal achievement, and accountability. Coaching does not involve the diagnosis, treatment, or management of mental health conditions.
If you are seeking help for mental health concerns such as anxiety, depression, trauma, or other psychological issues, please consult another licensed mental health professional, separate from Aliya Kenyatta, LCSW. Coaching is not a substitute for therapy, counseling, medical advice, or psychiatric care.
As both a licensed therapist and coach, Aliya keeps these roles separate. Coaching clients are not therapy clients, and therapy clients are not coaching clients unless explicitly agreed upon under separate written agreements.
emotional ease is luxury
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